Episode 10: Listener Questions about the 90-Day Sex Fast – Part 2

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With your co-hostesses:

Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com
Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org
Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com

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Today, in Part 2, we are answering listener questions regarding the 90-Day Sex Fast for marriages overcoming the impact of sexual betrayal and trying to build a new sexually intimate life.

Listen to Part 1 here: Episode 9: 90-Day Sex Fast – Part 1

We Will be Discussing:

  • Under what circumstances is the fast helpful and when might it be harmful/unnecessary? How does this differ from a betrayed partner who doesn’t desire physical intimacy and needs boundaries to feel safe?
  • What if we don’t make it? Do we mess everything up?
  • Does this begin on day 1 of sobriety? Or at the start of recovery? If your spouse has been sober for a while (but not yet in recovery), is celibacy still effective/beneficial?
  • What if your spouse hasn’t desired you in months, since his last slip up and therefore you’re in a forced sexual fast that wasn’t mutually planned?

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Thank you for sitting in with us today. Our deepest desire is that you will find encouragement, insight, and maybe even a laugh or two in the many episodes to come. We will talk with you again in two weeks.

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