We're three APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists) professionals who want to encourage other Christian women to have hope after betrayal - whether it's from their husband's pornography use, infidelity, secrets, other broken trust, or divorce.
Bonny Burns @strongwives
Bonny Burns, APSATS-cpc, ACC, ADOH, CCCS, ERCEM trained, BS in Christian Counseling Psychology from Liberty University. Bonny began her partner recovery journey in 2010.
Bonny's career began writing and researching healthy, godly sexual intimacy since 2012 on a blog and later joined a healthy sexuality podcast, forchristianwives.com.
She now helps wives impacted by sexual betrayal in all phases of their healing. Her niche is helping them discover confidence that sex addiction is not about sex or any lack in them. With this confidence, wives can move forward in strength, setting firm boundaries and understanding that worth comes from their status as God’s daughter, not any earthly role.
Bonny walks with women individually and in small groups as they heal from betrayal trauma to rise above the plague of sexually problematic behavior. She and her husband, Dave, have been married over 30 years, live in east TN. Their tears have dried and laughter has returned.
Where to find Bonny
Support and coaching with Bonny
Sexual Clarity Class with Bonny
Sex Chat for Christian Wives (podcast)
Books: Bonny on Amazon
Facebook - @strongwivesrise
Instagram – @strongwives
Community - the Sarah Society
Lyschel Burket @lyschelburket
Lyschel Burket, PCC, FRLC, APSATS-c, ADOH, has been working with women since 2008 as they take steps toward healing and their pursuit of God. She has facilitated support groups specific to partners of sex addicts since 2013 both locally in Knoxville, TN and online.
Lyschel is the Lead Hope Caster and Founder of Hope Redefined. She desires to be a part of something so much bigger than herself as she continues to expand the reach of support for women who are facing similar things to her own recovery story. She lives in Lenoir City, TN with her five kids. Lyschel has been on the road of recovery since 2006.
Where to find Lyschel
Cat Etherington @
Cat Etherington
Where to find Cat
Support Groups and Coaching: https://naketruthproject.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theNTP
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nakedtruthproject
Season 1-3 cohost
Pam Blizzard @recoveredpeace
We are so grateful that Pam Blizzard was a co-hostess for three seasons.
Pam Blizzard, is a compassionate guide for women navigating the aftermath of betrayal and relational trauma, offering a grounded and steady presence in seasons of confusion and pain. She helps women reconnect with their inner voice, rebuild a sense of safety, and establish clear, honoring boundaries in their relationships. Drawing from both professional training and lived experience, she creates spaces where women feel seen, challenged, and supported without judgment. Through her coaching and speaking, Pam equips women to reclaim their worth, discern truth from distortion, and move toward healing with strength and clarity.