Episode 22: The Secret of Values-Based Boundaries and How to Figure Out Your Values

Welcome to Hope for Wives

With your co-hostesses:

Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com
Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org
Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com

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Today, we are discussing values. Values are a person’s beliefs that motivate the way they behave and live out their life. They are also a guide for a person’s behavior.

We Will be Discussing:

  • What are your definition of values?
  • What are our personal two top values and why?
  • How can a betrayed wife start to figure out what her values are?
  • How are knowing your top values important for establishing boundaries?

Resources mentioned in this show:

Scripture references:

Matthew 6:24

Read the transcript


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  1. Cassandra A on November 8, 2022 at 2:00 pm

    Hey ladies! First of all, the transcript options is something I just discovered here! So great!

    In this show you mentioned about resources to help you identify values. This seems like a valuable stepping stone I might have unknowingly skipped over in trying to create boundaries (or blocked out in the early season of recovery). What sorts of specific resources would you recommend? Is their something cheesy like a quiz to Jill-start the heart-dig?

    • pam on December 7, 2022 at 10:03 pm

      Thank you Cassandra, we’re glad to provide the transcripts for those who prefer to read or follow along!
      I’ve updated this page to add the Values worksheet that was missing. Here’s the link: Top Values Worksheet

  2. Stephanie on November 9, 2022 at 6:39 pm

    This episode was so great and very helpful. I was wondering if you could share the value resources that were mentioned?

    • pam on December 7, 2022 at 10:04 pm

      We’re so glad you found it helpful! I’ve updated this page to include the missing Personal Values work sheet. The link is here.

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